This page is a tribute to my youngest brother, Eric. He was a good and genuine individual, a consummate team player. His passion - lacrosse; his dream - to start his own business after finishing college. His friends describe him as a true friend who shared in the laughs and stood by them even through the most difficult times. We all miss him and seek to remember him with the honor and respect he deserves.

Friday, November 2, 2007

Marine Corps Marathon/10K 2007

Friends,

I wanted to thank you for all your support this year in general and as I've trained and participated in the second 10K in particular. Being in Washington, DC at the Marine Corps Marathon and running in the 10k was a significant experience for me. Not only was this an event, but it was a place and a time to be with other families and friends who have lost loved ones in Iraq and with those who still have loved ones over there.



From here on out, all athletic events I do will be to honor my brother, Eric. Thank you for helping me with your donations as well as your support and encouragement.


Edna





Here are some photos of the day (courtesy Maia!):





Thursday, October 18, 2007

Donating ONLINE

Friends,

If you would like to donate online to the Isenberg School of Management at UMASS-Amherst, please go to

http://www.isenberg.umass.edu/Giving_to_Isenberg/

Thank you for your care and support,
Edna Valdepenas

Monday, October 1, 2007

Boston Marine Corps Honor Run



A great thank you to all who supported my brother-in-law, Maui, my sister, Teresa, and me in our participation in yesterday's Marine Corps Honor Run in Milton, MA. This was our first run and we were proud to do it - and finish! - in honor of our younger brother, Eric.


If you are interested in purchasing a pin (scroll down), please contact me at teamvaldepenas@aol.com or my sister Nora at nvaldepenas@hotmail.com.

Edna

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

The First Year of Mourning

One of the Few, the Proud, the Strong -- A U.S. Marine.

Young, handsome, intelligent, you gave your all so we can stay free.

We love you and miss you every day,
Mom and Dad
siblings: Edna, Marie, Sean, Neil, Nora, Karen, Teresa
nieces and nephews: Maia, Zoe, Jordan, Eric Xavier, Brianne, Jarod, Camille, Vincenza, Eric James
friends and fellow Marines.

Tuesday, May 29, 2007


In honor of my brother, Eric, my sister has crafted this custom made American flag pin. This pin is now for sale for $12.50 (includes shipping and handling). All proceeds will go to Eric’s Memorial Fund. If you would like to purchase a pin, please contact Nora at nvaldepenas@hotmail.com

Monday, May 28, 2007

Poems for Memorial Day

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep
- Mary Frye (1932)
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow;
I am the softly falling snow.

I am the gentle showers of rain;
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush;
I am in the graceful rush.

Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.

I am the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Scholarship Funds

A couple of scholarship funds have been set up in Eric's name - one at his high school and the other at UMass where he had been a student. Please help us keep his memory alive by contributing to these funds. They will help students at both institutions who demonstrate the same values Eric held so dear: honor, duty, respect.

L/Cpl Eric P. Valdepeñas Memorial Scholarship Fund
Bishop Henricken High School
2615 Warwick Avenue
Warwick, RI 02889

Lance Corporal Eric Paul Valdepenas Scholarship
Isenberg School of Management
University of Massachusetts Amherst
121 Presidents Drive
Amherst, MA 01003-9310

Checks should be made payable to UMASS Amherst, but please designate the Lcpl Eric Paul Valdepenas Scholarship Fund on the memo line.

Wednesday, May 2, 2007

Dance Eclectic 28 - 29 April 2007

Dance Eclectic at George School

Friends,
I've copied the Director's Notes from Barb Kibler, the dance instructor at George School, for the 2007 Dance Eclectic performance. She did a tremendous job putting the show together and she should be congratulated for a wonderful show.


"Director's Notes on 'Once We Were Children'"
The war in Iraq was brought to our George School doorstep this past September with the death in Al Anbar Province of Marine Lance Corporal Eric Valdepeñas, youngest brother of my friend and colleague, Edna Valdepeñas. This was the catalyst for the piece "Once We Were Children".

Less than 1/2 of 1% of Americans are actively engaged in this war. Most of us go about our lives and don't have to feel any impact from war. This dance was created to make us remember and feel and think about the people from all sides of conflicts who suffer when nations war. I chose to choreograph it in a backwards timeline to acknowledge the richness and joy of lives lost far too young and to emphasize the commonalities among people regardless of what side they fight on.

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

I wanted to let everyone know that on May 18 there will be a lacrosse game at Bishop Hendricken to honor Eric. There will be a presentation prior to the 6 p.m. start time. Eric's number will be retired and they will present our family with his jersey. I've also been told that this will be an opportunity to donate money to the scholarship fund set up in his name:

L/Cpl Eric P. Valdepeñas Memorial Scholarship Fund
Bishop Henricken High School
2615 Warwick Avenue
Warwick, RI 02889